| Prologue: A Letter from
“The Other Woman” |
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| Section 1: Understanding Extramarital
Affairs |
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“What God Hath Joined Together”: In
Pursuit of Healing for Shattered Marriages |
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Sorting Out the Chaos: The One-Night Stand and Sexual Addiction |
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Sorting Out the Chaos: The Entangled Affair |
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Causes: Environments That Allow Affairs to Flourish |
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Other Factors Contributing to Infidelity |
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Understand the Recovery: The Infidel’s process |
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| Section 2: Healing from Affairs |
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“What God Hath Joined Together”: In Pursuit of
Healing for Shattered Marriages |
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Understanding the Recovery: The Spouse’s Process
Why? Deciphering the Message of the Affair |
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Anger in Affairs: Getting Good Out of Getting Mad |
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Can I Trust You Again? Rebuilding Trust |
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“And They Shall Be As One”: Restructuring Intimacy |
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| Section 3: Special Circumstances |
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To Tell or Not to Tell: The Secret Affair |
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Emotional Affairs: Hooked, Played-out, and Desperate for Release |
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When Your Spouse Doesn’t Want You Back: The 90-Day Experiment |
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| Appendix A: What to Tell the
Kids |
| Appendix B: Materials for Use
with a Couples’ Support Group |
| Appendix C: Marital Satisfaction
Time Line |
| Appendix D: A Selected Bibliography |
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